Mein Lieber Herr

The first time I started hooking I was surprised to find that I wasn't having all that much sex with any of my Johns. My initial thoughts were, "What is this bullshit?! Am I not fuckable, or something?!" It wasn't until I started to get to know these wonderful people with whom I came into contact that I realized that, while I did work in the sex industry and contrary to popular belief that everything is about sex, there was more to it all than immediate self-gratification. Sure, there certainly is and can be that aspect of being a RentBoy where you and your clients develop a strictly sexual relationship but sometimes you encounter someone who simply wants a connection with another individual.

HustlaBall New York 2012

HustlaBall New York 2012 marked my inaugural role as a performer with this hell of a raunchy mega-party. This year's headliners included the sexy dynamic duo TnT (Trenton Ducati and Tate Ryder), Christopher Daniels, Rafael Alencar, Sister Roma, Tommy Defendi, and Danni Daniels, just to name a few. Hosted at Club Rebel in Midtown Manhattan, the three-story nightclub allowed party-goers and performers to meet and greet each other from the main stage and dance floor, photo booth, XXX dance floor, and VIP room hosted by DJ Chi Chi La Rue. If y'all weren't part of the festivities this past Columbus Day weekend, you definitely missed out - I mean come on! What else could you have possibly been doing, especially with the following Monday off from work?

HustlaBall New York 2012 Red Carpet Interview

Check out my red carpet interview with Sister Roma and Mr. Pam at HustlaBall New York 2012. Now I know why she made this face earlier in the night!

Happy National Coming Out Day!

Today is National Coming Out Day, an annual celebration of ones self-identifaction as a member of the LGBTQI community by "coming out" of the proverbial closet. Founded in 1988 to promote progress through visibility, we as a community have come a very long way in our quest towards equality. I've heard a lot of people exclaim that it seems ridiculous to have a specific day to celebrate being out, open, and proud of our sexual orientation, that our lives should be a testament to this very fact. I agree. Choosing to live openly as queer individuals encourages others to do the same and shows them that they are not alone and have a family and community that accepts and loves them for who they are.

HustlaBall New York 2012 Red Carpet

Drake Jaden getting his ass eaten on the red carpet as I get branded with a HustlaBall tattoo in the background.

A group of us decided to go shopping for our red carpet outfits together after we got out of rehearsal Sunday afternoon and, after making stops at our favorite shops, ultimately found the perfect gear at Nasty Pig. A huge shout out definitely goes out to those guys, we love your stuff! Duffel bag full of chains, harnesses, and other costumes in tow I made my way to Club Rebel shortly before the doors opened for VIP ticket holders and headed down to the performer dressing room where the other guys were gearing up for the red carpet.

Go Away, It's Columbus Day!

I didn't cum once during any of my shows last night so I made up for it today by cumming 8 times. Pretty good, right?

Most of us took the day off to rest and recharge our batteries after a full day and night of dancing, fucking, and sucking at HustlaBall. I hope y'all had as much, if not more (though I don't know how that's possible!), fun than I did at this year's party and can't wait to see y'all again next year! We'll review the festivities with a full coverage later this week, but for now I leave y'all with a finger lickin' cum shot pic from the sixth time I came today.

HustlaBall New York Preparations

Check out the full line up of your favorite porn stars and DJs at this year's HustlaBall New York 2012!

As we all get ready for tonight's HustlaBall New York 2012, let's take some time to prepare ourselves for the epic night to come with a standard to-do list. Some of the boys and I went out to grab any last minute gear from our favorite stores here in Manhattan and were discussing some of the key essentials to putting on a great show as well as enjoying the party. We're all so very excited to see y'all tonight and were horny with excitement at today's rehearsal, so I hope y'all are ready for the night ahead!

BB Only?

 

What's with everyone wanting to bareback these days?

Lately I've been encountering a lot of tops who want to, or only ever, hookup bareback. Now, I'm only human and have slipped up a few times in my life I practice safer sex and encourage others to do the same. Although we've made significant medical advancements to prevent the spread of HIV/AIDS and improve the quality of life of those who have been inflicted with the disease, it still remains a threat.
This then brings up the question whether people are educated about HIV/AIDS and safe sex, but also whether they are regularly tested and know their status. The decisions and actions of two consenting adults, who are aware of the status of the other, is not something about which I can speak for or against. I'm definitely not one to judge as I love to watch bareback scenes, but these videos are often filmed after all consenting parties are tested.

Ch-ch-ch-changes!

I was going through old journals and came across this gem of a piece from a blog posting I wrote in my sophomore year of high school when I just came out of the closet. It's funny how some things have changed but how a lot has, more or less, stayed the same. We, as a society, are constantly reinventing ourselves and that cannot be more true for me right now. If you told me that I would be working for RentBoy, The Saint at Large, Folsom Street Events, and other similar companies when I was just coming out of the closet I would have, first of all, had no idea what you were talking about and, after learning what they were, laughed in your face and made a snide comment regarding sex workers and the porn industry.