I'll See Y'all at HustlaBall New York!

HustlaBall New York is coming up next Sunday, the 7th of October 2012 and I cannot wait to be onstage once again. I'll be making my debut at HustlaBall as a performer and will be go-go dancing throughout the night. I can't tall you how excited I am, and hope to see all of your beautiful faces there! I'll also be at the pre-parties throughout Manhattan.

Meditations on Sexuality, Part I

"Wake up, it's 2000! The new millennium won't be about sexual labels, it will be about sexual expression. It won't matter if you're sleeping with men or women. It will be about sleeping with individuals."

-Samantha Jones

Preach, sister! Sexuality is a thoroughly fluid entity. A friend and I were discussing sexual labels last night and he questioned my self-given label of gay. “I thought you were also sexually attracted to women?” he asked. The truth is that I definitely can be attracted to women, but I’m also attracted to men. Does that make me bisexual? Perhaps. Does it make me straight? Sure. Am I gay? Totally. To oversimplify it, I identify as gay because I find myself primarily attracted to men - I guess you could say I’m homoflexible. All these labels, all these people, and so little time to truly dive into it all to determine the origins of sexuality. Let’s just enjoy each others’ company - man, woman, intersex, gay, straight, bisexual, pansexual… we’re all just sexy, sexual individuals.

Thank You, Summer 2012!

This past summer was so much fun but I'm actually glad that it's drawn to a close and we have the gorgeous autumn and winter to come! After working both the Black Party and Folsom Street East this year, taking a well-deserved trip to Italy last month, and the debauchery that ensued while on my first summer out on Fire Island, I think I'm ready for another brand of excitement! Sure, the tank tops and sleeveless shirts are going to be hibernating for the next few months but that means looking damn good in some fall and winter styles.